Stop chasing people, stop making them feel that you are dying to be with them, stop feeling that you don't have any other options. There's a lot of good things waiting for you. Because the truth is the more you chase them the more they play hard to get, they will feel your energy, don't give them a desperate energy, you have to feel abundant, make them feel that you will never feel bad if you don't get along with them, make them feel that you have nothing to lose and can always look for another options because you have a lot of it. Having that needy attitude is will make you unattractive, putting yourself on a desperate mode will make you unrespectable, your value goes down if you play like this. You have to show them that you can always look for something else, you have to make them know that you are not an easy to get person and you can always entertain yourself with whatever you have.
That's why a lot of people can't get what they really want, they're so afraid to negotiate, they're always on a scarcity mindset, they're too attached with something they want that's why the can't have it. Let the world know that you can always walk away from anything, let them know that you are ok with what you have and you can live without them.
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