Most people are preparing for something before they start, they wanted everything to be perfect before they start and that's why they can't improve. They want to improve first before they take a risk or start something. They want to improve their skills first before looking for a job and that's why they can't find a job. They want to prepare and make a plan first before they post a content and that is why they can't post one. They want to get better before they join something and that is why they can't join. I am always inviting my friend to join our basketball club so he can have an activity because he's getting older, his response is he will jog first and get conditioned before he join us and that is why he can't join. He can't get his confidence back because he wanted to look perfect first before he take an action, he doesn't want to get embarrassed because his cardio is weak, he doesn't wan to look bad because he can't run on the floor and compete and that is why he is stuck. You will only have confidence if you try and just show up. He needs to join first, play the game and then tweak his conditioning afterwards. You will never be able to start of finish something if there is always a condition before you start it. There should be no condition, there should only be execution. Embarrassment, getting punked, failing and looking worse is all part of the design, the truth is you are the only one who is judging yourself, nobody cares if you look weak and funny. Another friend of mine says he will buy a running shoes first before he run and that is why he can't run. The mofo has a lot of basketball shoes that he can use for running but he choose to look cute and that is why he can't start. The truth is you need to start first before you improve, you need to run first before you improve your cardio and running form not the other way around. Most people want to improve first before they do something and that is why they can't improve. Preparing too much, looking for something before you start is just an excuse. Master showing up, master just doing it and you will feel powerful in your life. Your confidence will go up once you master showing up whether you have confidence or none. Just do it and take it one step at a time, getting embarrassed is just an imagination, and so what if they laugh at you? it means they are insecure. Nobody who is better than you will laugh at you, people who will laugh at you are just below you. They are insecure and they are trying to look good by mocking somebody. Who can start fast without thinking if he will look like a fool is the one who is going to win. This is not about emotion or security, this is about facing the adversity and not giving up.
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