It's not about confidence, feeling superior, sure, motivated or secured... its about how you can feel meaning how you can process your emotions, how you can feel everything and not judging it. You can feel depressed but still moving forward, you can feel scared but still trying, you can feel threatened but still making a stand. That is what real courage is... you will still do what you can despite of feeling bad, scared, threatened or defeated. At the end of the day this is not about bravery, this is about tenacity. Most people can feel brave when they are up but can they still try when they are down and badly wounded? It's not about what you feel, it's about what you can feel, can you embrace your emotions and still think properly? can you still try despite of feeling nervous and worried? can you still show up even if you know that you have no chance of winning? can you still fight despite of being an underdog? can you still swim even if you're running out of energy? can you still manage to believe a little bi even if you think that you're already losing? can you still do what you can with the last ounce of your energy even if the winner has already been decided? if you can feel everything, if you can embrace your emotions, if you can accept what you can't then you're on a different level, you can survive anything, you can still pull up a miraculous comeback. This is not about being strong, this is about choosing to become strong because you have no other choice. Feel what you don't want to feel, embrace it, that feeling is normal, you're just a human being and you are suppose to feel everything, what makes the feeling irritable is you dwell on it too much, you act like you are only here to feel joy and bliss which is a wrong mindset, you are here to feel everything that is you duty as a human, you are blessed to be feeling emotions because that is what being a person is all about. Just keep pushing forward while moving so that you were be able to survive, if you keep on acting like a victim then you will never survive, be strong because that is the only choice you have, actually you don't even need to become strong... you just need to survive, endure and overcome and you will be alright, you don't need to become a winner... you just need to become a survivor and everything else will fall into its right place, just overcome and you will get what you want if you keep on working until the end. So stop stopping, stop making dramas and looking for sympathies, you are suppose to suffer, you are suppose to struggle, you can never experience greatness and victory if you are always refusing to feel the pain.
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